Pragmatic Competence and Conflict Resolution Strategies in Elder-Involved Family Conflicts
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Pragmatic competence, conflict resolution, elder-involved conflicts, family communicationAbstract
Elder-involved family conflicts present unique communicative and relational challenges that require nuanced strategies for effective resolution. This study examines the role of pragmatic competence—the ability to use language appropriately in social contexts—in shaping conflict resolution practices within multigenerational family settings. Drawing on qualitative interviews and discourse analysis, the research explores how family members navigate politeness, indirectness, face-saving, and empathy when addressing disagreements involving older relatives. The findings reveal that higher levels of pragmatic competence facilitate more constructive dialogue, reduce escalation, and promote mutual understanding. Conversely, pragmatic failures often contribute to misunderstandings, resentment, and relational strain. The study highlights cultural and contextual factors influencing communicative choices and underscores the importance of pragmatic awareness in family mediation and counseling. By elucidating the intersection of language use and conflict resolution, this work contributes to the development of effective interventions that support healthier intergenerational relationships.
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